April 30, 2007

catch this guy: Martin Sexton


If you ever come across Martin Sexton in your local concert listings, I highly recommend you check out his show. I remember when I first saw him perform at a tiny club nestled in Park City, Utah at last year's Sundance Film Festival. The snow was falling outside and we were all huddled together, waiting for him to hit the stage. I had no idea what to expect, I had never heard of Martin Sexton before. As soon as he started playing I was hooked. His soulful voice and amazing vocal range sent goosebumps rippling across my arms. I couldn't believe that I hadn't heard of this immensely talented singer before. He had the stage presence of Jack Black, but the beautiful soul of Grant Lee Buffalo. We were fortunate enough to catch him again in Seattle at the Showbox on April 19th. He did not disappoint. Backed up by a band this time, his show had more of an O Brother, Where Art Thou feel to it - a real southern swamp kind of sound. I love the fact that he partnered up with Clif Bar to make his tour "green." His tour bus is filled with biodiesel, his tour shirts are made from organic cotton, he only eats organic food back stage - he's paving the way for bands to make a lighter imprint.
I am a bit of a purist and prefer the show where it was just Martin and his guitar in Utah -it is truly the best way to showcase his vocal range. Maybe I have a soft spot because we were lucky enough to run into him at the grocery store in Utah, where we got to thank him in person for his great show. I still giggle when I think of how People Magazine takes photos of celebrities with captions reading, "they buy groceries, just like us." He's a down-to-earth kind of guy and once you check him out while his "church" is in session, you too will be a believer.

April 19, 2007

on being a woman


I had a wonderful morning sitting on the back porch in the sun reading the book "Becoming Myself." It's a wonderful collection of essays written by women from all walks of life on what it means to be a woman.
I thought I'd take a few moments to write my own perspective on that very topic.

I was born at the right time. I love the fact that as women today we don't have to be pigeon-holed. We can be wonderfully complex creatures who aren't boxed in. As I grow older, I embrace the very things that make me different. I used to think that happiness was "the dream". I thought that happiness meant you had to have a husband, children, a house, a retirement plan, and a career. But as time has gone on, I've realized that to me happiness means tapping into all the things that speak to my soul. Happiness is discovering my unique strengths and developing them to their fullest potential. Being a woman is becoming who I am meant to be, not who I "ought to be".
I love the fact that I grew up with with adventurous girls who have turned into my life-long friends. We drew pleasure from jumping ditches, climbing trees and doing cartwheels in our yards. We could have a picnic with our dolls in the garden and follow it up with bike races around the block. We could be girly girls and tomboys in the same week and it didn't matter. To this day, I feel just as pretty in a dress as I do wearing my hiking boots and climbing in the mountains. I love the empowerment that comes with being a modern woman. Today's woman can be anything she puts her mind to. She should never apologize for who she is. If a woman chooses to be a homemaker, a career woman, a working mom, a single woman - she can. We have finally gained the right to choose.
I love the fact that I have friends from all walks of life: women who champion one another and support one another in their individul pursuits of happiness. I have no time for women who waste their energy cutting one another down. Women's friendships are most empowering when we can lean on one another and lift each other on our shoulders.
Oprah always says you have "aha" moments in your life. I remember lying on a rooftop in New Orleans last year, hammering in soffits. I looked around me and realized I had truly grown as a woman. With a fear of heights and a shy disposition, being on a rooftop and surrounded by strangers on foreign soil was definitely out of my comfort zone. But in that moment, I realized that I was happy, helpful, having a laugh and learning new skills. I was doing something that my grandma never could in her day. It would have been unheard of for a woman of her era to be away from her family working on a construction site.
We've come a long way. I can't wait to see what the future holds for each of my friends. As long as we try our best with each day, and keep growing, there's no limit to what we can become. So don't worry about "doing it right" worry more about doing it your own way.

April 10, 2007

New Resume Addition: Experienced at lining up


I don't know what could possibly be more fun than standing in line for 9 1/2 hours to renew your passport. Oh wait, I know, standing in line for 9 1/2 hours and going home empty handed. Farcical is probably the best word to describe today's events - but leaning more to the definition of "stupid" than "slap happy". Although, I have to admit, I could have happily slapped a few people today.
Work offered me the opportunity to fly to Las Vegas for a conference in two weeks, provided I get my passport updated in time. I called around and happily discovered that if you go to the downtown branch of "Passport Canada" you just have to show a meeting itinerary or airline tickets and for an extra $70 or $80 you can expedite the process and get your passport in three short business days. A couple of weeks ago a co-worker of mine lined up to renew her passport at 6 a.m. and walked out of the downtown office by 10 a.m. So, I naively thought that if I arrived at 7 a.m. I should have the process wrapped up by noon. You know, leaving ample time aside for an afternoon run, walking molly on the beach and catching up with my friends.
My first mistake was arriving at 7 without a coffee in hand. I stood in line and had to wait outside for about an hour before they shuffled us indoors. All I could do was stare longingly at those ahead of me who had the white gleam of starbucks cups in hand. "Oooooh look at me, I'm so organized and left myself an extra five minutes so that I could actually enjoy my time outside in line with a grande double shot non fat extra hot 1/2 shot of vanilla latte." Do you remember that feeling you get at Disneyland when you think you're getting close to the front of the line, only to round a corner and see it zig-zagging its way over hell's half acre? I had the same sinking feeling when they let us into Sinclair Center. If you ever wonder where Vancouverites hang out these days, they're all in Sinclair Center in the passport line. Apparently there were hundreds of people in line before 6. a.m. My heart sank as I saw people ahead with their lawn chairs in hand.
It's funny when you're in a line up all day. Your mentality shifts into one of desperation. "Can you hold my place in line? I'll be right back I have to run to the ladies room." And you do everything in warp speed so that you can quickly return to "your spot". And just as an aside, what are the rules with the handicapped stall in a public washroom. If there's a line-up, can you use the stall? I used it and then felt guilty after when I noticed a woman with a cane in line.
But I digress.
I giggled to myself when I noticed around 2 p.m. (7 hours into the line) - the old men in line were all starting to mill about. With one hand on their hips and another shielding their eyes as if blinded by the sun, they looked upwards towards the passport office hoping some passport pope-like ticket agent would come to the balcony and give us a tidbit of guidance. I especially revelled in the fact that it took until 3 p.m. for someone to swing by and tell us that, oh no, new development - we might not make it, but it's up to us to stay or go. Seeing as though I had spent 8 hours up until this point sitting & reading, shuffling along, repeat, repeat, repeat, repeat - I decided to stay until the end. At 4 p.m., the passport agents handed us a yellow form - we wouldn't get to see an agent that day, but if we held onto these forms, they would allow us to deposit all of our information into a drop box. They made us line up (a process we were stars at by now) - and "stand by" while they put together said drop box. At 4:15 a very grumpy and over worked commissionaire told me in a thick scottish accent it was a waste of time to be there and that the drop box wasn't going to happen! I asked him if we could come back in the morning to this phantom "drop box" that was being set up. And he said, "look lady, you're naught gittin it, I'm tellin ya, it ain't goin' to happen!" As he started screaming and swearing, people gathered around and asked to speak to his manager. He just laughed at us and said, "I am but one man!"
Long story short, I will not be going to my conference, I am not one iota ahead in terms of my passport application and I now get to work the weekend in lieu of having this day off. Good times!!

March 25, 2007

Marley and Me


I wanted to strongly recommend the book Marley and Me to all my dog-loving friends. Josh Grogan's heartfelt and hilarious account of the trials and tribulations of raising a barelling 97-pound golden lab is one of the best books I've read in a long time. His comical accounts of dog rearing are intertwined with his journey of creating a career and life for himself with his wife Jenny . From the touching account of how Marley paused from his rambunctous nature to rest his head in Jenny's lap after her miscarriage.....to the hilarious account of how Marley, tied to a table at an outdoor cafe took off, table and all, in pursuit of a poodle.. makes you fall in love with the spontaneous and loyal nature of man's best friend. Through every stage of Marley's life, we are reminded of what it was like to raise our own dogs: the unpredictable destruction, the tales of public embarassment, and evidence of divine loyalty. There's a famous quote I love by an unknown author: "My goal in life is to become the person my dog thinks I am." Josh Grogan's simple telling of his thirteen years spent with Marley are deeply affecting. The image of him sleeping on the floor downstairs in a sleeping bag next to Marley when Marley couldn't climb the stairs anymore speaks volumes about the profound love we feel for our furry family members. Dogs teach us to slow down, to take long walks and to enjoy the outdoors. They teach us about selflessness and unwavering loyalty. They don't care if you are rich or poor, if you are popular or not, they just give you their heart everytime you walk through the door. I recommend this book, not only for its beautiful storytelling, but more importantly because I think we can all learn a thing or two from the unconditional friendship and love offered to us by dogs.

February 19, 2007

February 14, 2007

Happy Valentine's Day!

This is a photo of Molly at 3 months old. That's right, I'm pulling out the cliche baby animal photo to tug at the heartstrings. It's quite funny that I am writing a Valentine's Day entry since I am one of the few people who considers Valentine's Day to be a contrived event where Hallmark, Florists and Purdy's Chocolates executives sit together in a giant boardroom laughing and high-fiving one another as they count their stacks of money. Don't get me wrong, I am a romantic at heart. I just find it funny when I think of scenarios like the following: "What do you mean your restaurant is fully reserved? My wife is going to kill me! Doesn't that mean anything to you? Can't you squeeze in a small table for two somewhere? Damn you! You're ruining me! I have to be romantic today!" so, the customer opts for plan B and runs to the florist. "What do you mean you're sold out of roses! Carnations? Are you kidding me? My wife thinks carnations are for teenagers who just don't know better! Are you trying to ruin me?"
But I do want to take this opportunity to talk a little about love. I think love shows up in your life in all shapes and forms. Out of total gratitude, I just wanted to write down some examples of what love means to me because I have been fortunate to feel love so profoundly in my life:
-feeling lit up inside just because you're around someone
-making someone laugh
-seeing a child's face light up when they see you
-holding hands
-my 95 year old grandma's baking
-listening to molly snore
-cooper falling asleep on my stomach
-laughing so hard you have tears rolling down your cheeks
-getting all the girls together for a glass of wine or a cup of tea
-writing a letter
-homemade cards
-dancing
-falling asleep in a tent (makes me feel like a kid)
-riding my bike (makes me feel like a kid)
-watching two seniors walking hand in hand
-taking photos of landscapes or animals (pure candidness)
-working on my home
-finding a new song that I connect with
-volunteering
-family dinners
-Smiley making me coffee before he goes to work
So, that's my Valentine's Day sentiment. It's not the big sweeping gestures that make impacts on me. It's really the little moments in life that fill my heart. xoxoxox

January 28, 2007

Seattle Bitchfest





"Among those whom I like or admire, I can find no common denominator, but among those whom I love, I can: all of them make me laugh." (W.H. Auden)
I can't fully express how much I appreciate these friends of mine. One thing I know for sure is that I feel wealthy just knowing them. I am starting to see some trends forming around our Seattle excursions. I tend to drive down while Forbes sleeps and lets me listen to my tunes at a "reasonable napping volume". While we're driving, she'll wake periodically to take inventory on her snack supply and make sure I didn't steal her precious almonds. She will grab her blackberry to call or text J (roughly every 30-45 minutes) and undoubtedly ask me immediately afterwords: "Isn't J cute?" And at some point during the weekend Kitty will play an India Arie song and I will tear up. This weekend did not disappoint.
Here are a few of my favourite moments from our visit:
-Running in the beautiful sun around Green Lake
-Walking along the Kirkland waterfront, having great coffee coupled with wonderful conversation. Breaking into laughter as we sat on the pier and Kitty had the misfortune of taking in a deep breath just as Forbes let out one of her classic green clouds. It was a perfect example of Kitty being in the wrong place at the wrong time. I still think Forbes should be air care tested annually. I am pretty sure Al Gore would concur. He may want to add the Forbes factor to his CO2 emissions studies.
-Having a good heart to heart conversation while we waited in the car wash line-up....and realizing that Kitty's $1 tip really didn't go far
-Sampling some great French wine while we dined on Capitol Hill (where we got to treat Kitty for her wonderful promotion - too bad she didn't receive what she ordered) -Kitty and I had fun watching Forbes maintain her composure even though we didn't eat until 8:30
-Meeting Kitty's new friend "B" for dessert where Forbes asked him the best question of the night: "So "B", what do you like to do for fun besides Kitty?"
Some things that cracked me up that weren't funny at the moment, but in hindsight were quite funny: I put my contacts in Saturday morning and my new solution completely fried my retinas- apparently the guys on shift at "Clear Care" decided it would be funny to make contact solution entirely from bleach.
-Forbes' ginormous suitcase - she had packed as if she was traversing Europe when the weekend was over. She received a few tense calls and was in the doghouse for packing J's favourite jeans & earrings. But judging from the size of her suitcase, I'm guessing there weren't any clothes left in the apartment.
The biggest trend of all that I notice from our weekend trips is that I feel completely rejuvenated after. I love the mix of personalities when we're together. Most of all, I love the laughs we all share. I am so lucky.

January 15, 2007

Winter Wonderland


It's easy to see why we live in B.C. All it takes is one sun-soaked afternoon on top of a glistening local mountain and you feel completely rejuvenated. When we set out to go snowshoeing at Mt. Seymour, I honestly thought it'd be a glorified walk. I should have known that my partner in crime had marathon-sized lungs with a penchant for climbing. While sitting having a water break at a breathtaking viewpoint, Smiley pointed up at the peak and said, "look at those people climbing up there." At first, I thought they were trees. But, with a lot of squinting, I could see tiny dots slowly moving up the steep incline. I knew by his smiling face that we were on a mission. I have to admit, I was excited by the prospect of pushing myself physically and attempting to overcome my fear of heights. On the way up, we were told that it was best to remove our snowshoes as someone had fallen down the slope earlier, miscalculating the ice steps. Climbing up the steep face on all fours, I was on a mission, like a driven mountain goat. I carried my snoeshoes in my hands and used their blades as ice-picks, digging my feet into the side of the hill, one step at a time, never looking down. Smiley got a bit nervous at one point, but with his clown-sized feet, it took him a lot more effort to carve big enough steps into the hillface. During some harrowing moments, I was muttering to myself, "remind me again why we're doing this....." but when we reached the top, it wasn't just the vistas that made it worthwhile, it was our sense of accomplishment. Over four hours of hardcore exercise, fresh air, gorgeous scenery and sparkling sunshine - it doesn't get much better than that. Click on this link if you'd like to see more photos: Mt. Seymour pix

January 13, 2007

January 09, 2007

The houseguest




While Chris & Lynda soak up some rays in Molokai, we've got their hairy son -Max. I have fallen in love with Max- he had me at "woof". Like most males I know, Max enjoys long walks, eating whatever you put in front of him, running around after sticks, marking his territory and double dumping. He snores when he sleeps, has taken over the TV room and will stand right in front of you when he wants attention. I'm not saying all males are created equal.....but.........

December 30, 2006

A New Year



I always get excited before a new year. It's a wonderful chance for renewal and setting new goals. It's a year of "unknowns" that I can't wait to see unfold. Here are my highlights from 2006 (in no particular order): Sundance Film Festival, Maui, New Orleans, running my first half marathon, buying my first home, having all family & friends healthy, weekend getaways at Whistler & Boyer, finding out my brother & Shannon are going to have a baby, taking photography & creative writing classes, seeing Martin Sexton live in Utah, having my good friends bounce back wonderfully after starting the year in heartbreak.

We're entering the year of '007 - the year of Bond. It's time to toss back a few martinis (shaken, not stirred), drive our cars like they're Aston Martins, and show the world that we've got balls!
Here are my resolutions for 2007 - I thought if I posted them, I'd be on the hook to stick to them.

-build confidence & push through fears (2007 will have big news)
-get something published
-maintain good health - eat right/get rest/exercise frequently
-run in more races
-volunteer
-go on an adventurous vacation
-learn guitar
-go on a canoeing/camping trip
-do 3 paintings that are frame-worthy
-read a book a month (minimum)
-and finally, keep maintaining my blog - it's my favourite creative outlet- the art of mixing writing with photography taps into my true self.

Here's to 2007, Cheers!

December 27, 2006

Good News!!

While celebrating my mom's birthday, my brother and his lovely wife Shannon passed my mom a gift to open - inside was an adorable baby t-shirt with "happy birthday grandma" written on the front. I burst into tears and hugged them - so excited that my baby brother is going to be a dad. It's hard to believe this is the same guy that used to give me face washes or hold my head under water in the tub. I know they are going to be amazing parents. Needless to say, it was a hard act to follow. Watching my mom open the earrings I bought her after she got her "grandma" baby-t was quite funny. I was trying to hype up my gift, "hey mom, did you know the earrings are from France!" I can't wait to meet Greg & Shannon's baby in August. We're all going to spoil him or her with love. I've got my fingers crossed that the baby has Shannon's smile and Greg's white man's 'fro.

Gumption: Courage, spunk and guts. That's what Kitty has in spades. Not only have I been impressed by her resounding resilience over the last challenging year she's faced - I have found her to be one of my most inspiring friends. I couldn't be more proud to find out that she's been promoted to day trader in our glamourous energy biz! She downplays her successes but I am so proud of her. I have witnessed her intellect and resourcefulness first-hand whether it's at work, at home or getting us into Sundance closing parties! Way to go Kitty! We'll definitely plan a night out with Ker and Forbes and treat you to a celebratory dinner

December 17, 2006

Happy Birthday Ker!






I can't walk past the Hamilton Street Grill without thinking of Ker. So, it was only fitting that we all gathered there to celebrate the birthday girl's new year. I knew Ker was a big fan of HSG's warm bread pudding, but it was so cute to actually see her applauding and grinning from ear to ear when it arrived at our table. Her inner little birthday girl was shining through. During our night out, Pepper was keeping the bed warm for Ker & The P back at the hotel's "family suite". I just giggle thinking of Pepper sprawled out on a queen sized bed ordering steak tar tar to the room on the P's credit card.
Kitty and I assumed our usual role of "paparazzi extraordinaire" from our end of the table. Only this time we had a new partner in crime - Dante - Kitty's new charismatic and engaging friend from San Fran. I swear between the three of us there couldn't have been a moment during that night that wasn't captured on film. Brad and Jenn were left in more peace than our poor friends were that evening. Our lenses definitely captured the warm and fuzzy glances taking place between ker & the P.....and Forbes and JT.....and Forbes and Kitty (just kidding). It was a wonderful evening of great food, absolut-ly fabulous drinks, and hilarious conversation - burgers vs the buns! Ker looked radiant and I hope she enjoyed her special night. Here's hoping 2007 brings a bundle of great things her way!
More Pix From Ker's Bday

December 13, 2006

Famous Amos














I was introduced to the sweet and smooth stylings of Amos Lee last night at the Commodore Ballroom thanks to a birthday ticket from Nic. I love being in the presence of genuine talent. He is one of those singers that has a fluid soulful vibe who seems to sing effortlessly. We had the amazing good luck of standing right by the front and center of the stage. Despite McDrunky and McRacist on either side of us, it was easy to lose ourselves in the songs. I love the fact that Amos Lee used to be an elementary school teacher and then found his voice. I would have purposely failed grade 2 if this guy had been my teacher. I have to give a shout out to Nic, Pat, Kitty and Kurt for the great concert and introducing me to such a fabulous singer. You can click on the link below if you'd like to see more concert photos. Amos Lee

December 11, 2006

New Christmas Present....












This year I received my first Digital Camera. I am so excited to have my gift a little early to document the Christmas holidays. Thank you Smiley! There sure is something to be said about feeling like a kid when you get a new toy. I'm downright giddy knowing that I have a few days off to play with my new little camera. I've always had a film camera and have been one of those geeks who develops all their holiday photos the first day back from a trip, simply because I cannot wait to see how they turn out. Okay, that may not be the only reason I'm a geek. I just know I'm going to drive my friends nuts with this. They are going to feel like they're hanging with the paparazzi. The dog and cat are already letting out big sighs when they see my lunging for my camera. Check back in a week and I'll post my week in images. Say Cheese(ball)!

November 26, 2006

Book Recommendation

I just finished reading a novel that I highly recommend: The Memory Keeper's Daughter by first time novelist Kim Edwards. The story grabs hold of you from the beginning - when a doctor helps deliver his wife's twins - a son and a daughter- during a snowstorm. Upon realizing that their newborn daughter has Down's Syndrome, he insists the nurse take her away to an institution and tells his wife that their daughter died during childbirth. The story is so deeply moving, about a family torn apart by secrets and longing. It was the best page-turner I've read in years. The relationships among the characters were so beautiful in their complexity and so remarkably true to life. I hope the next book I read can captivate me from start to finish as this one did. I hope you enjoy it.

November 19, 2006

Habitat for Humanity


I can honestly say my adventure in New Orleans was a trip of a lifetime. If you want to skip my write up, you can view my photo album here: New Orleans Pix.
I was nervous when the plane touched down in New Orleans. I had no idea who I would be living with and what the work week would entail. Luckily enough my trip started with ample comic relief to ease any lingering nervousness. Ray (our fearless team leader) greeted Trevor, Zane and I at the airport. We all burst out laughing when Ray popped the trunk of his Toyota Echo. Not to bash the Echo, because I know they are great little cars for gas mileage, but the trunk space pretty much fits one suitcase comfortably. Correction, it fits one carry-on bag comfortably. We stacked all of our luggage on our laps, and looked like a carload of floating heads. We had to keep pushing bags out of our faces to talk to one another. We had a great laugh, it was a terrific ice breaker. We drove out to Thibodaux, about an hour's drive west of New Orleans to meet the rest of our team in our Habitat For Humanity volunteer headquarters.

My teammates: Pat (a retired nurse who dedicated her career working in the Children's Hospital in Toronto and mother of two sons), Leona (Pat's older sister, a retired teacher from Haliburton -Ontario's beautiful cottage region), Don (An engineer from London Ontario who runs his own company and competes in Masters Race Walking, father of a son and daughter), Aggie (Don's wife, a retired school teacher and Master Race Walker), Trevor (an archeologist from Winnipeg), Nora Mclellan(a theatre actress from Niagara On the Lake, you can google her bio, it's impressive), Winnie (an engineer from Toronto), Sara (a dairy farmer from Cape Breton), Zane (runs maintenance for the legislative buildings in Edmonton, father of two daughters), and Ray, our fearless leader from London Ontario who has built over 15 houses for Habitat since 1998.

Our living quarters: We split our team into two homes, one for the men and one for the women. The houses for the volunteers to sleep in were extremely bare, simply because they would be finished and donated to families at a later date, once the Habitat subdivision neared completion. We had mats on the floor for our sleeping bags, and the kitchen was simply equipped with a refrigerator and microwaves (no sink or stove). At first glance we all thought our kitchen had a television, but it was just an ancient microwave that we all stood a safe distance from when it was in operation. I was thrilled that Pat packed a tin of Tim Horton's coffee, it brought that little piece of Canadiana into our home. It was also funny that Don and Aggie kept to the arrangement and slept in separate houses during their week's stay. Every night they'd kiss in the driveway like a couple of teenagers. It was so funny at the end of the week, we were all staying up late chatting in the kitchen and then Aggie said, "Ok troops, I think I'm going to change into my pj's and turn in." And without a moment's hesitation, Don said "Can I watch?" I think the separate housing situation put a new spark in their marriage. :)

Our daily routine: We'd get up at 6 a.m. and the men and women would congregate in the women's kitchen where we'd all jockey for position to have breakfast. At 7 a.m., we'd meet up with the rest of the volunteers at the Habitat pavillion to go over the day's work duties and do a group cheer. We would fill our tool belts at the shed with what we would need for the day ahead, load ladders and power tools on the truck to be dropped off at the job site and put in a workday from 7-3. At noon we'd all gather at the little mess hall for a free lunch (usually meat and a rice dish, so for me, usually a rice dish). In the evening, the 10 Canadians would drive into Houma or Thibodaux for dinner (the dinners out were included in our initial Habitat fee). It became part of our routine to also get lost everytime we drove off the Habitat site. A some point during every evening out, we'd end up in a parking lot looking at maps or asking for directions. It definitely offered up a lot of comic relief. The funniest evening of all is when the team decided to go to a lecture on coastal erosion .(I can't think of a better way to top off a long day of construction work in 80 degree heat, can you?) Our driver was going down the highway, making turns, driving through subdivisions and then he eventually pulled over and said, " so, where exactly is this place the lecture is at?" Nobody had any idea. No one brought the address or directions. 10 people and no one had the foresight to bring the brochure. I was pretty thrilled that we didn't find the lecture and went out instead for a fabulous meal of pasta and vino. After our meals in town, we'd usually all congregate in the kitchen of the women's house for tea/wine and great conversation.

The Habitat project: Families who lost their homes during Hurricane Katrina or Hurricane Rita could apply to Habitat for one of the new homes on the Bayou. As part of the application process, potential partner families have to be gainfully employed to make the mortgage payments and they have to be willing to donate 350 volunteer hours before receiving their homes. For me, perhaps the most inspiring moment of my week came from meeting the partner families. Often family members would assist us on our worksites as they fulfilled their volunteer hours. Their stories were remarkable. So many of them lost everything. I remember one woman telling me she had been separated from her children for 5 weeks during Katrina's aftermath, and she had no idea if they were alive or dead during that time. The families would hug us and thank us for donating our time to help them. I have honestly never felt so fulfilled. It made me single handedly feel like I was making someone else's life better. I was so angered by the US government's slow reaction to help these families that I worked extra hard to push myself during my visit and make every moment count. I painted 20 shutters, installed three porch posts, put soffits up on two houses and installed F and J stripping on two homes. I conquered my fear of heights by spending the majority of the week on top of a ladder. I felt so empowered walking around the job sites with my tool belt on - it definitely put an extra swagger in my step. I also found it exhilarating using power tools. Even though I had on goofy safety goggles most of the week, with a power drill or hammer in hand, I felt right sexy! I will surely be a Home Depot junkie after this experience.

Highlights:
We took a tour of New Orleans and got to see the true scope of Katrina's devastation. Our tour started in the beautiful French Quarter, which was virtually untouched by Katrina. The wrought iron designs and architecture were simply stunning. We learned about the fascinating history of the old Creole City. But it was the drive through the St. Bernard Parish and the 9th Ward that left me speechless. It's been over one year since Hurricane Katrina struck, and the regions surrounding the Industrial Canal, where the largest levee breached, still feel like a ghost town. Tens of thousands of homes remain boarded up, with spray painted statistics on their front doors, indicating if bodies or pets were found inside during initial inspections. It's so hard to believe that so many families are still living in tiny FEMA trailers in their front yards, still trying to piece their lives back together. It was alarming to see the water lines on the houses and to see the holes in the rooftops where families had to gather and await rescue. I found it especially frustraing to see the city rebuild the same levee structures that failed them before. They haven't learned from this devastation. It was an eye opener but well worth seeing to feel the full impact of what these people went through and continue to endure. It definitely made me feel the urgency of my volunteer work and the necessity of it. All of the volunteers had a wonderful sendoff with a barbeque dinner. I was a little surprised when I arrived to find the barbeque consisted of three kinds of meatballs. It was another rice dinner for me! But we had a great time sitting around the campfire, sipping wine out of plastic cups. We looked at the constellations, made smores and chatted about the week we all had together. We played cards in the men's kitchen and honestly laughed so hard we had tears streaming down our cheeks. I am so thrilled that the Habitat project coincided with my week off of work. Meeting new friends, lending a helping hand, learning about construction, indulging in travel photography, and feeling fulfilled - not bad for a week's holidays. :)

November 03, 2006

Bon Voyage!


Tomorrow at the crack of dawn, I'm flying to New Orleans to help with the Louisiana rebuild project. I know it's only a week, but I'm hoping it will be a life changing experience. I can't wait to meet my fellow Canadian teammates, learn some skills and get my hands dirty. I just wanted to write this little note to thank all of my friends and family for their calls and messages of support. I will take a tonne of photos, journal the experience and try to write to you from the road if there's an opportunity. Life is all about new experiences and pushing ourselves out of our comfort zone. I've never travelled on my own before and can't wait to see how the adventure unfolds. There's a little expression I like: Know your limits, not so you can honor them, but so you can smash them to pieces and reach for magnificence. Have a wonderful week and I'll post some entries about the experience when I return. Peace & Love.

October 29, 2006

Sex&The City


When the Kitty, Ker, Forbes and I get together, it reminds me of Sex & The City - except that we all pretty much turn into Samantha after a few martinis. The girls surprised me with an evening out on the town for my 34th birthday. We kicked off the night at Sanafir, a funky tapas spot on Granville. Nic, Pat and JT joined in on the fun as we sampled prawn, chicken and beef trio dishes and knocked back Kama Sutra cocktails. Ker and I brilliantly concluded that the drinks needed an extra shot of vodka, which may or may not be directly linked to our new-found interest in smoking Nic's cigarettes after dinner. That's right, we laugh in the faces of those who say you get wiser as you get older. After sufficiently horrifying the staff with our saucy photo sessions, we all weaved through the halloween-costumed crowds on the city streets and headed into the Republic because hey, we needed more cocktails and more photo ops! It was another funky venue, complete with high ceilings and cascading chandeliers. Strangely enough though, the DJ ignored the club's modern stylings and served up bad vintage like Bob Segar and Guns and Roses. I think Pat summed it up best - old W music. We still managed to dance up a storm -inspired by just being together and perhaps, the steady stream of cosmopolitans pumping through us. I giggle when I think of the table of baby boomers seated next to us in the club. They looked dumbfounded by our creative use of Kitty's digi-cam. Later, when Ker, Nic and I were huddled outside of the club, protecting our cigarettes from the rain, a girl approached us wondering if we knew where she could get cocaine. I had to giggle thinking, oh good, this is the vibe we're giving off now. Perhaps she thought I was on something because I was (very awkwardly) smoking in the October rain wearing a tank top. I like how Nic answered her by saying, "Cocaine? No, sorry, not around here." As if had she asked us maybe a few blocks away, we could have been of more assistance. We waded back through the rain to Forbes' pad and the girls surprised me with a set of luggage for my upcoming trip to New Orleans. I was so overwhelmed by the entire evening's generosity. From start to finish, the company and the night's energy were infectious. I think we're all a little thankful Kitty's camera battery died by the end of the night, or there could have been some embarassing moments captured! Shivering under a thin blanket on Forbes' couch I looked over at Ker- I had to laugh because her air mattress was really just for show- it was completely deflated and she pretty much slept on the hardwood floor all night, suffering from the (deflated) bed spins. So, although at that moment we didn't look as glamorous as we had felt throughout the evening, it was a fabulous night! I am definitely one of the lucky ones. My wealth is the people in my life and Kitty, Ker, Forbes, JT, Nic & Pat made me feel like a million bucks that night and I can't thank them enough.

Llama in need of a dentist......

I couldn't resist snapping a photo of this buck-toothed beauty when Janet and I took Cody to the pumpkin patch in Richmond this week. I like to think of this as the Austin Powers of the Llama kingdom -who could resist a face like this?